How to Choose Your Crystals
How to Choose Your Crystals
The Story Behind Samdea Mala
Many years ago, after losing my beloved mala, I decided to create a new one using the stone traditionally linked to my zodiac sign. After a quick search online, I discovered that the stone for Capricorn is black onyx. Excited, I ordered 108 beads and eagerly assembled my mala.
However, within just one week, I began to experience intense nightmares and emotional discomfort. Unaware at the time of the energetic properties of stones, I set the mala aside. Almost immediately, the unsettling experiences faded. Later, I discovered that black onyx, while powerful, can amplify deep unconscious energies—sometimes too much, depending on the person and the moment.
That unexpected experience marked the true beginning of Samdea Mala and my lifelong journey into the sacred world of crystals and energy.
How to Choose Your Crystals: The True Answer
Today, "How do I choose the right stones?" remains one of the most frequently asked questions I receive. And the honest answer is: there is no one-size-fits-all solution.
Each soul is unique. Choosing your stones depends entirely on your personal energy, your current life phase, and your inner journey.
You can approach the choice in two main ways:
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By resonance: selecting a stone that reflects and amplifies your natural qualities.
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By compensation: selecting a stone that supports areas you wish to strengthen or heal.
Both methods are valid. Often, the best choice combines a little of both.
Zodiac Signs and Stones: Myth and Reality
Many people look to their zodiac sign to guide their stone selection. It's a fascinating path—but one that requires care.
The connection between zodiac signs and crystals is ancient, possibly dating back to the Breastplate of Aaron mentioned in the Bible, which was adorned with twelve stones representing the twelve tribes of Israel. Scholars have debated for centuries which stones correspond to which signs.
In the fifth century, Saint Jerome suggested that the twelve stones might represent the twelve months of the year. Over time, this idea evolved, blending spiritual tradition with folklore.
Today, you’ll find many different "official" lists linking stones to zodiac signs, depending on the country and tradition. Some lists even include corals and pearls, which, being fossils rather than minerals, hold different energetic properties.
The important truth: There is no universal "correct" list.
At Samdea, the guidance I offer is based on a combination of:
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Careful personal study
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Experience gained over years of helping people create their malas
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Intuitive sensitivity to individual energy fields
Stones Associated with Zodiac Signs (General Guide)
Wearing or carrying the stone linked to your astrological sign can strengthen your vital energy and amplify your inner gifts. Here is a simplified general guide:
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Aries: Carnelian, Red Jasper
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Taurus: Green Aventurine, Rose Quartz
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Gemini: Agate, Citrine
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Cancer: Moonstone, Selenite
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Leo: Tiger's Eye, Peridot
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Virgo: Amazonite, Green Jade
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Libra: Lapis Lazuli, Pink Tourmaline
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Scorpio: Malachite, Obsidian
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Sagittarius: Topaz, Amethyst
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Capricorn: Garnet, Onyx
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Aquarius: Labradorite, Amethyst
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Pisces: Amethyst, Aquamarine
Stones Linked to Months
Traditionally, stones have also been linked to the months of the year. Although less studied, here’s a widely accepted list:
How to Truly Choose Your Crystal
Ultimately, the most authentic way to choose your crystal is to trust your intuition.
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Look at photos of stones or hold them in your hand if possible.
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Notice which one "calls" to you — even without a logical reason.
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Listen to how you feel in its presence: calm, energized, inspired?
However, intuition can sometimes be clouded by the mind, by external pressures, or by a lack of sensitivity. In these cases, having a compassionate guide who knows the energetic language of crystals can make all the difference.
The ideal crystal will feel like a resonance with your deeper self — not just something you "like" intellectually.
Choosing Your Crystal with Support
If you’re seeking guidance on your path… If you feel overwhelmed by the many options… If you desire a crystal that truly supports your inner growth…
I am here to help.
Together, we can explore your unique energy, your aspirations, and the challenges you face, choosing stones that will accompany and strengthen your journey.
✨ Your mala or bracelet is not just jewelry — it is your sacred companion. ✨